Consider what kinds of slang is used - not so much to decide if it's offensive, but more to determine if it is going to be a turn-on for your Valentine.
This can be a huge turn-on for him, and he'll see the verbal fireworks as a sign that the "chase" is on!
They can be quite a turn-on in the bedroom, as well, as the full slips are similar in style to babydolls and chemises.
But everyone you meet will think you just exude that poise naturally, and that in itself is a turn-on.
But as artists like Rubens knew, a strong, confident BBW is a big turn-on.
The raw emotion was more of a turn-on than he expected.